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(Modesty, Style, and the Joy of a Temple-Ready Gown)

If you’ve been wedding dress shopping lately, you know how hard it is to find something modest. Strapless. Backless. Low-cut. It can feel like everything on the rack is missing the coverage you're looking for as a Latter-day Saint bride.

But here’s the good news: You don’t have to sacrifice beauty or style to honor your standards. In fact, some of the most elegant wedding gowns are modest—and there are hundreds of flattering options if you know what to look for.

Let’s walk through the most important things to consider when choosing your LDS wedding dress: from fit and budget to temple readiness and bridal accessories.

Where to Find Modest Wedding Dresses

LDS Bridal Shops
If you’re lucky enough to live near Utah or Idaho, you might want to visit one of the many LDS bridal stores in person. These shops cater to Latter-day Saint brides and often have a wide selection of modest gowns, ready to wear right off the rack.

Online Retailers
Don’t live near a specialty store? No problem. Many LDS-friendly retailers have wonderful selections online. Some even offer live chat or video consultations to help you find the perfect dress.

Mainstream Bridal Shops
You may still find a beautiful modest gown at a national retailer—or you can choose a dress that can be altered to fit your modesty needs. Adding sleeves, raising a neckline, or layering with a modesty insert can make a big difference. Don’t be afraid to ask what's available in the warehouse or for custom modifications.

What Makes a Dress Temple Ready?

For your sealing, your dress must meet the following criteria:

• White

• Long-sleeved

• Floor-length

• High neckline (no collarbone showing)

• No train

You don’t have to wear your wedding gown in the temple—many brides choose a separate white temple dress or add sleeve inserts temporarily for the ceremony. Either way, you have beautiful options.

Budgeting for Your Gown

Most off-the-rack wedding dresses range from $500 to $1,000, though prices can go much higher. If you’re on a budget, consider renting a gown or buying gently used. If finances allow, remember—it’s okay to invest in a dress that will become part of your family history and cherished in photos for generations.

Know the Dress Styles Before You Shop

Understanding the five basic wedding dress shapes can save you a lot of time:

• A-line or Princess

• Ball Gown

• Empire Waist

• Mermaid

• Sheath or Column

Each shape flatters different body types, so consider your build and comfort before stepping into the fitting room.

LDS Wedding Dress Necklines, Sleeves, and Skirts

Necklines: From sweetheart to boat neck to jewel, each style highlights different features. Choose a neckline that flatters your face and honors your standards.
Sleeves: Cap, ¾-length, long, bishop, poet… There are so many modest and stylish options available.
Skirt Lengths: While full-length is most traditional, many brides love ankle-length or ballerina styles for a modern twist.

Veils, Shoes, Jewelry—Don’t Forget the Details!

When choosing your accessories, think timeless. Your veil should complement your gown (elbow, fingertip, or cathedral length). Shoes should be comfortable—you’ll be on your feet for most of the day. Jewelry should add a graceful finish without distracting from the beauty of your gown and spirit.

Take Trusted Friends (and Garment Guidance!)

Before you shop, talk to someone who wears garments—especially if you’ll be endowed before your wedding day. And don’t go alone! Bring your mom or maid of honor to help you make a confident, joyful decision.

LDS Wedding Dress Shopping Can Be a Beautiful Experience

Yes, it can be overwhelming. But with the right preparation and a prayerful heart, you’ll find a gown that reflects your inner beauty and your sacred commitment.

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