How to Choose an LDS Wedding Dress

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Simple thoughts to help you feel beautiful, confident, and completely yourself.
Choosing your wedding dress might feel like one of the biggest decisions of your wedding planning journey—and that’s okay. You’re not just picking a gown. You’re choosing how you’ll show up for one of the most sacred, joyful moments of your life.
You may already have a vision. Or maybe you’ve tried on twenty dresses and feel more overwhelmed than when you started. Either way, this is a space for peace, encouragement, and a little practical help.
Modesty can be beautiful—and joyful
As an LDS bride, modesty is already part of your heart. But finding a dress that feels both sacred and stunning? That takes a little extra care. You’ll want a gown that covers the shoulders, has a high back and neckline, and offers full-length elegance. But that doesn’t mean plain.
Think romantic sleeves, flowing trains, covered buttons, illusion lace, and simple details that make you feel like you. Modest doesn’t mean missing out. In fact, when it’s done with love, it’s more radiant than ever.
One size doesn’t fit all—literally and emotionally
Bridal sizes are notoriously odd. So don’t let the number on the tag discourage you. Many brides size up and then tailor down. The most important thing is how you feel. Not stiff, not stuffed, not like you're trying to be someone else—but supported, graceful, and full of light.
As you shop, bring someone who will listen, encourage, and remind you what matters. Don’t settle for the most expensive dress or the trendiest one. Find the one that lets your spirit breathe.
Let’s keep this simple
There are beautiful resources to help—like my Wedding Dress Shopping Guide. It’s full of support, not stress. Inside, you’ll find:
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A modesty-friendly breakdown of sleeves, necklines, and trains
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The B.R.I.D.E.S. method for choosing your gown without overwhelm
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Ideas for accessories, veils, and comfortable underlayers
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Advice for shopping with family, or on your own
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A full glossary and over 200 custom dress illustrations
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Styling help by body type, venue, and personal taste
Whether you’re weeks from your big day or just beginning to dream, this book is like a trusted friend—here to help you feel prepared, peaceful, and lovely inside and out.
You can get it for just $1.99 or receive it for FREE as part of my full LDS Wedding Planning library. Either way, it’s yours with love.
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Ready to plan a wedding that reflects your faith, your style, and your values?
I created the Church of Jesus Christ Wedding Planner to support LDS brides who, like you, want a wedding day that’s both beautiful and sacred. Whether you’re looking for meaningful decor ideas or practical planning help, I’m here to guide you every step of the way—with resources designed just for Latter-day Saint brides. You don’t have to figure this out alone. Let’s make your wedding day as joyful and unforgettable as the covenant you’re preparing to make.
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