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Decorative napkin folding might feel like a tiny detail in the grand scheme of wedding planning—but it’s one of those little touches that can make your reception table feel truly special. If you can take a moment to plan for it now, your guests will notice (and remember) the effort.

Let’s walk through how and when to use napkin folding at your LDS wedding reception—and explore some beautiful ideas to make your tables shine.

When Is Napkin Folding Appropriate?

Napkin folding is usually reserved for more formal wedding receptions that include a sit-down meal with individual place settings. If your reception is more casual—like a buffet or finger food setup—napkins are often just stacked near the serving table for convenience.

But if you're planning a plated dinner, then a folded napkin at each setting adds a beautiful finishing touch.

Linen Napkins vs. Paper Napkins

First, you’ll need to decide whether you want to use linen or paper napkins. Both have their benefits:

Linen Napkins

• Elegant and easy to fold into detailed shapes

• Heavier weight holds folds better

• More expensive and may require ironing

• Best suited for smaller receptions—or when included by your caterer

Paper Napkins

• Budget-friendly and disposable (no washing afterward!)

• Easy to match with your wedding colors

• Available in embossed or custom-printed options with your names and wedding date

• Can be folded into simple or decorative shapes, though they’re less structured than linen

If you’re planning a large reception, or want a pop of color that matches your palette exactly, paper napkins may be the way to go. They also make great keepsakes for guests if personalized!

Types of Napkin Folds

Napkin folds can be simple and flat or elaborate and sculptural—whatever suits your theme and table style. Here are a few popular options:

• Napkin Roll with Ribbon or Ring – Classic and tidy, this option works with either linen or paper napkins.

• Silverware Pocket Fold – A favorite for practical brides, this stylish fold holds utensils neatly in place.

• Swan or Flower Shapes – Add an artistic and elegant flair to formal table settings.

• Flat Fan or Envelope Fold – Works beautifully with printed napkins, showing off any monograms or embossed details.

Where should you place the napkin? That’s totally up to you! Napkins can be:

• Folded on top of the plate

• Draped across the plate

• Placed to the side

• Fanned out from inside a water glass

Wherever you put them, they’ll draw the eye and add a thoughtful layer to your décor.

Keep It Simple or Go All Out?

There’s no rule that says you must fold napkins a certain way—or even fold them at all. If time or budget is tight, simple stacking is perfectly acceptable.

But if your reception leans toward the formal side, a beautifully folded napkin at each guest’s plate says, We thought of everything… and we’re so glad you’re here.