R ♥ Religion: Let Your Values Guide Your Wedding Dress Choice
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For many brides, faith and personal values play an important role in choosing a wedding dress. Whether you're preparing for a church wedding, a temple sealing, or simply want a gown that reflects your beliefs and comfort level, modesty and beauty can absolutely go hand in hand.
Take into account how much skin you're comfortable exposing as you search for a wedding dress—or what changes you're willing to make to a dress you love. Your level of modesty is a reflection of your beliefs, your upbringing, and your personal taste.
A church or temple wedding may require a certain level of modesty, and some denominations may have specific standards to follow. Fortunately, that doesn't mean you have to sacrifice style in order to wear the dress of your dreams.
Beautiful and Modest Can Go Together
Many wedding dress styles can be brought into the range of appropriateness with simple modifications or the addition of a jacket, shrug, sleeves, or lace inserts.
If you've already found a style that meets your standards, wonderful! But if your dream dress needs a few thoughtful adjustments, consider some of these ideas:
• If you like a bare look but don't want to expose your arms, choose long sleeves made entirely of lace.
• For bustier styles, consider a lace jacket that buttons in the back.
• Try a silk bolero-style jacket with elegant three-quarter sleeves.
• Have a lace inset added to low necklines.
• Find dresses with sleeves, or have sleeves added by a skilled seamstress.
• Choose a re-embroidered lace bateau neckline that continues seamlessly into long lace sleeves.
• Opt for narrow V-necks, slits, or keyholes that don't expose cleavage.
• Avoid silhouettes that are heavily fitted below the high hip or navel.
• Wear hosiery with styles that expose your legs, or your feet when wearing open-toed shoes or sandals.
• For fitted skirts, add ruching, ruffles, or tiers to soften the silhouette.
• For open-back styles, wear an attached lace collar that covers the upper back and shoulders.
• Have wide straps added to a strapless dress.
• For low-back necklines, add a Watteau that extends gracefully from both shoulders.
• Choose a veil that covers the face and back and extends over bare shoulders and the bust.
• Avoid clingy dresses made from lightweight fabrics.
Finding the Right Balance
Every bride's standards are a little different. What feels comfortable and appropriate for one bride may not be the same for another, and that's perfectly okay.
The goal isn't to create a list of restrictions. The goal is to help you find a wedding dress that reflects who you are and what matters most to you.
When your gown aligns with both your personal style and your values, you'll feel more confident, more comfortable, and more focused on the sacred promises you're making on your wedding day.
The most beautiful wedding dress is one that helps you feel confident, comfortable, and true to yourself. Whether you choose a gown that needs no modifications or one that requires a few thoughtful adjustments, your dress can reflect both your personal style and your deepest values.
The goal isn't simply to follow a rule—it's to feel radiant as you begin this sacred new chapter of your life.
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