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Setting the Mood for Your Celebration

Besides lighting, there’s one detail that shapes the entire feeling of your wedding reception—and that’s the music.

From the moment your guests walk through the doors, music creates the atmosphere. It welcomes them in, sets the tone, and says this is the kind of celebration we’re having. Whether your reception is elegant, fun, romantic, relaxed, or even a little quirky, the music you choose will make all the difference.

So let’s talk about what to play, when to play it, and how to make it happen on your big day.

Creating the Right Mood with Music

Music is one of the most powerful (and affordable!) ways to express your style as a couple. Want your reception to feel timeless and classic? Play standards like Frank Sinatra or Harry Connick, Jr. Planning something more upbeat and playful? You might choose your favorite love songs from today’s charts—or even sprinkle in a few unexpected tracks that make your guests laugh or sing along.

There’s no one-size-fits-all here. What matters most is how the music makes you feel… and how well it reflects the joy of your wedding day.

Key Musical Moments

Even if you’re not planning a full-blown dance party, there are a few key moments that usually involve music:

• Background music for dinner or socializing

• First dance as a married couple

• Father-daughter and mother-son dances

• Cake cutting

• Bouquet toss or garter toss (or your own fun alternative!)

Each of these moments is a chance to share something meaningful or playful with your guests. Some couples choose songs that reflect shared memories. Others pick a track that’s simply beautiful. And of course, many LDS couples make sure to check the lyrics ahead of time for anything that wouldn’t be appropriate for the setting.

Who Will Play the Music?

Once you’ve decided on the vibe, the next step is deciding how you want the music to be played.

Hire a DJ

• Plays continuous music and keeps the energy flowing

• Offers a huge library of music and can take requests

• Great for announcements and keeping the schedule on track

• May be a more expensive option—but often worth the peace of mind

Book a Live Band

• Live music creates an exciting, authentic atmosphere

• Adds a personal, unforgettable touch

• Band members will need occasional breaks

• Limited setlist unless they can take custom requests

Do It Yourself

• Most affordable option

• Full control over your playlist

• Be prepared to handle the tech side (and troubleshoot if needed)

If you’re going the DIY route, designate a tech-savvy friend or family member to help manage the playlist and transitions. Trust us—you don’t want to be the one fiddling with a speaker while still in your wedding dress!

Final Tips for LDS Brides and Grooms

In the months leading up to your reception, keep your ears open for songs that move you. Jot them down when you hear one you love. Review lyrics closely (yes, all the verses!), especially if young children or older relatives will be present.

And if you’re hiring a DJ or band, don’t be shy about asking for references or past recordings. You want someone who will respect your values, honor your requests, and keep your guests happy.

Want Help Choosing Reception Music?

If you’d like a step-by-step guide to planning your LDS wedding reception music—including song suggestions, playlists, and pro tips—check out the Wedding Music Guide.

It’s filled with ideas for every musical moment of your special day.