Tuxedo Accessories for LDS Grooms

Close-up of LDS groom in black tuxedo with satin lapels, bow tie, and boutonnière — Image courtesy of Wendy G Photography

Image Courtesy of Photos by Wendy G.

When you’ve chosen to wear a tuxedo for your wedding day, the look isn’t complete without the right accessories. From head to toe, each detail adds polish and helps you feel confident as you step outside the temple doors to greet family and friends. Here’s what every LDS groom should know about tuxedo accessories.


Tuxedo Shoes

Classic tuxedo shoes are sleek, black, and shiny—often made of patent leather. Unlike wingtips or other dress shoes with patterns, tux shoes are plain and formal.

  • Many grooms rent their shoes as part of the tuxedo package.

  • Always try them on in the afternoon, when your feet are more relaxed (this mirrors how they’ll feel on your wedding day).

  • Bring the exact dress socks you’ll wear to ensure a proper fit.


Dress Socks

Black, over-the-calf dress socks are the standard choice. They don’t have to be fancy, but they should stay in place and be comfortable for hours of standing, photos, and dancing.

Pro Tip: Men’s support socks or hose help with circulation and keep socks from slipping. And if you want to add a little personality, fun patterned socks can make for memorable photos—just make sure your bride is on board.


Tie or Bow Tie

Traditionally, tuxedos are paired with bow ties, but today either a bow tie or straight tie works—just make sure the entire wedding party matches.

  • If your bride wants to incorporate wedding colors, ties can coordinate beautifully.

  • If you’re unsure, stick with classic black—it’s always timeless.

  • As the groom, you may choose a slightly different tie to help you stand out.

If bow ties feel intimidating, practice ahead of time or choose a pre-tied option for convenience.


Cufflinks

Most tuxedo shirts have French cuffs, which require cufflinks. These small details add elegance and sophistication.

  • Rental cufflinks are often available at tux shops.

  • Don’t splurge on expensive ones, unless you can afford it—you only need them for a day, and they’re easy to lose.

  • A thoughtful idea: gift matching cufflinks (or ties) to your father, your bride’s father, the best man, and groomsmen. It creates unity and adds color to your wedding photos.


Final Thought for LDS Grooms

Accessories might seem like small details, but together they complete the look. They also reflect respect for your bride, your wedding party, and the eternal promises you’ve just made inside the temple. Choose wisely, prepare early, and you’ll step into your reception feeling polished and ready for forever.

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This is an independent resource created by a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. It is not affiliated with or endorsed by the Church. For temple requirements, ordinances, and Church policies, please consult official Church resources or your temple

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