How to Dress for Different Weddings

^{Image Courtesy of Kimbry Photography}

One of the questions almost every mother of the groom asks herself is, “But what do I wear?” The answer depends a lot on the season, the style, and even the theme of the wedding. Just like your son and his bride are planning every detail carefully, you’ll want to choose an outfit that feels appropriate, comfortable, and confident. Here’s a guide to help you dress beautifully for any kind of LDS wedding.

What to Wear to a Theme Wedding

If your son and his bride have chosen a theme for their wedding or reception, you may wonder whether you should dress to match. The answer? Ask them! If the theme is vintage, Asian, Renaissance, or something unique, it can be fun to coordinate—but always get a second opinion before finalizing your choice. The goal is to complement, not compete, and to honor the couple’s vision while still feeling like yourself.

What to Wear to a Casual LDS Wedding

For receptions in the cultural hall or more laid-back settings, keep things simple. Sequins, heavy beading, and ultra-shiny fabrics may feel out of place. Instead, look for a two-piece dress, tea-length skirt, or something understated and elegant. A good rule of thumb? Don’t dress more formally than the bride herself.

What to Wear to a Formal LDS Wedding

Evening or black-tie weddings call for a little more formality. In most cases, that means a full-length dress with a bit of fullness to the skirt. Accessories such as a wrap, matching purse, or elegant gloves can elevate your look. Just be cautious with jeweled hair accessories—leave the sparkling tiara moments to the bride.

What to Wear to a Spring or Summer Wedding

Spring and summer weddings open the door to softer colors and flowing fabrics. While darker neutrals are always safe, this is your chance to try something lighter. Dresses in soft yellow, pale or bold pink, lavender, or even floral patterns can feel fresh and seasonal. Tea-length or knee-length dresses pair beautifully with open-toed shoes or light flats for comfort in warmer weather.

What to Wear to a Fall or Winter Wedding

Autumn and winter weddings are the time for rich, deep hues and heavier fabrics. Think plum, maroon, navy, forest green, or chocolate brown. Velvet, brocade, or structured materials feel right at home in the cooler months. Long sleeves or a coordinating wrap are both practical and elegant, and closed-toe shoes keep your look polished.

Whatever the season, theme, or formality, the most important thing is to check in with your son and daughter-in-law before making your final choice. Your outfit should feel like you, while also blending beautifully with the spirit of their wedding day. Dress to fit the occasion, and you’ll shine with grace and confidence every step of the way.