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What Every LDS Bride’s Right-Hand Woman Should Know

Being asked to be the maid of honor is—well, an honor! It means the bride considers you her best, closest, and most trusted friend. You’ll be her sounding board, her steady hand, her backup plan, and yes, her train-fluffer and bouquet-holder on the big day. But your role goes far beyond just standing beside her in a beautiful dress.

Here’s what every maid of honor should know, especially when supporting a bride planning a temple wedding for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Your Role as the Bride’s “Right Hand Woman”

From the moment she asks you to stand by her side, you become her “go-to” person. LDS weddings, like any other, come with their share of details and emotions—but they also hold deep spiritual significance. That makes your support even more meaningful.

You might not be making the covenant promises she is, but you’re still a vital part of helping her prepare, feel calm, and enjoy this once-in-a-lifetime experience.

Here’s What the Maid of Honor Typically Helps With:

• Planning and hosting the bridal shower (This is a big one! And yes—there’s a whole book we’ll link to soon that can make this easier!)

• Throwing the bachelorette party, if the bride wants one

• Helping the bride choose her wedding dress – She needs your honest, loving input

• Helping with cake tasting – Yum! If the groom isn’t into it, you’re up!

• Attending bridal fairs or registry appointments

• Supporting her through planning stress – even if it's just listening to her vent

• Holding the bouquet and fluffing her dress train on the wedding day

• Giving a toast or short speech at the reception (Another helpful book coming!)

The Bride May Seem Calm—But Planning Is a Lot

Even the most low-key bride might feel overwhelmed with everything that goes into wedding planning. Your role is to gently offer support, step in where needed, and be available as much as your schedule allows.

You might help pick out bridesmaids’ dresses, offer to call vendors, or help organize her notes and to-do list. Sometimes just sending a quick “you’re doing great” text makes all the difference.

It’s especially important to be gracious and flexible, since her time may be filled with temple preparation, meetings with her bishop, and spiritual planning alongside the practical.

Pro Tips for LDS Maid of Honor Service

• Dress Shopping? You’re a must. The bride trusts you to tell the truth gently and help her feel beautiful and confident.

• Registry Appointments? Tag along if she wants—especially if the groom isn't interested in the towels and toasters.

• Cake Tasting? Yes please. If the groom is too busy or not that excited, step in and have fun with her!

• The Toast? Practice with her if she’s nervous about her speech—or let her preview yours if you’re giving one!

The Best Thing You Can Do?

Ask what she needs. Every bride is different. Some want a lot of help. Some have a mom, sister, or aunt taking the lead. But every bride needs to know she’s not doing this alone.

Being a maid of honor is about love, support, and making sure her wedding day is one she’ll remember with joy. You’ve got this!