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The tradition of raising a glass and offering a heartfelt toast to the newlyweds is thousands of years old—timeless, touching, and filled with joy. But what about today, at a Latter-day Saint wedding reception? Is it okay to toast the happy couple with sparkling cider or a bubbly (non-alcoholic) beverage?

The Sparkling Side

Many Latter-day Saint couples do choose to include toasts at their wedding reception. They use non-alcoholic champagne, sparkling cider, juice, or even water in elegant glasses. Because it’s alcohol-free and fully aligned with the Word of Wisdom, these toasts are often seen as a joyful, symbolic gesture—not about what’s in the glass, but what’s in the heart.

A toast is, at its core, a moment of gratitude, humor, or celebration—often from parents, the best man, or the maid of honor. Done well, it becomes a memorable part of the evening—sometimes tearful, often funny, and always personal.

The Cautious Approach

That said, some Latter-day Saints prefer not to include toasts—even non-alcoholic ones. They may feel that the practice, despite being technically Word-of-Wisdom-friendly, echoes traditions too closely tied to alcohol culture. Scriptures such as 1 Thessalonians 5:22—"Abstain from all appearance of evil"—are often cited, along with modern revelation that encourages avoiding anything that could cause confusion or offense.

For couples who hold that perspective, the alternative is simple and just as meaningful: share speeches or tributes without the clink of glasses at the end. A loving parent or best friend can still speak from the heart and honor your love story without raising a glass.

So… Is It Okay?

In short: yes
The Church offers no official stance on whether wedding toasting with a non-alcoholic beverage is appropriate at an LDS wedding. It’s one of those personal decisions every bride and groom must prayerfully—and respectfully—make for themselves.

Talk it over with your fiancé. Consider your families, your guests, your values, and your comfort level. If it feels right for you both, raise your glass and smile. If it doesn’t, skip it and speak from the heart instead.

As with every other part of your wedding planning journey, the most important thing is that your choices reflect your love, your faith, and your shared vision for the day.