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What to expect, how to prepare, and why it’s sacred.

Planning a temple wedding as a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is a unique and sacred experience. If you or your family are new to temple weddings—or just want a deeper understanding of what it all means—you’re not alone.

Here are some of the most frequently asked questions LDS brides and their loved ones have as they prepare for a Christ-centered wedding focused on eternal covenants and family.

What makes a temple wedding different from a traditional wedding?

The biggest difference is this: a temple sealing isn’t just for “until death do us part.” It's a sacred ordinance that seals a couple for time and all eternity—and if they remain faithful, they can be with their family forever.

This kind of eternal marriage reflects some of our deepest beliefs as Latter-day Saints:
• That marriage is ordained of God
• That families are central to God’s plan
• That the temple is a holy place of covenants, not just celebration

Unlike civil weddings, temple ceremonies are not public events. They’re reverent, sacred, and only open to worthy endowed members of the Church.

Why can’t everyone attend an LDS temple sealing?

This is one of the most emotional and often misunderstood parts of an LDS wedding. Temple sealings are reserved for members who have been endowed in the temple and hold a current temple recommend—which is based on personal worthiness, not social standing or preference.

If you're not able to attend, that doesn’t mean you’re not loved or that you won’t be a meaningful part of the couple’s special day. Most brides and grooms plan a ring ceremony or beautiful celebration afterward where all loved ones are warmly included.

What does a sealing ceremony look like?

Temple sealings are short (about 20 minutes), quiet, and incredibly beautiful. They’re performed by a temple sealer in a peaceful, light-filled room. Brides typically wear a modest white temple dress, and grooms wear white suits.

The ceremony includes counsel, sacred covenants, and the sealing ordinance itself. Many temples feature mirrored walls, symbolizing eternity in both directions—a powerful reminder that this covenant binds families together forever.

What should we wear?

Only white temple clothing is worn during the sealing. This includes:
• A modest white dress for the bride (temple guidelines apply) Brides may their wedding dress.
• A white shirt, tie, pants, socks, and slippers for the groom

Dresses with color, trains, or veils can be worn for photos or a grand exit after the ceremony—but not inside the temple.

If needed, most temples have clothing available to rent. Always call ahead to check—smaller temples sometimes have limited availability.

Are all temples the same?

No two temples are exactly alike, but the ordinances are the same worldwide. Some temples are larger and accommodate more guests. Others may be more intimate or require extra travel—but every sealing is equally sacred.

What if we want a civil ceremony first?

In some countries (including parts of Europe), couples must legally marry before being sealed in the temple. In the United States, couples typically go straight to the temple if both are members in good standing.

If one partner isn’t a member or not yet ready to enter the temple, couples may choose a civil marriage first, with a temple sealing afterward, when they are both prepared and worthy.

What about non-member friends and family?

LDS weddings can feel different, especially for family members who may not share your faith. That’s why many couples choose to hold a ring ceremony or meaningful post-sealing event to include everyone in the celebration.

We believe that every soul matters deeply—and there are beautiful ways to make everyone feel seen, loved, and honored.

Where can I learn more?

Here are some resources to explore the beliefs behind Latter-day Saint marriage and temples:

• The Family: A Proclamation to the World

• Why Mormons Build Temples

• The Book of Mormon and the Bible

• The Articles of Faith

Final Thoughts

Your LDS temple sealing is more than a ceremony—it’s a covenant. One filled with sacred promises, eternal purpose, and everlasting love. If you’re preparing for this incredible step, you’re not just planning a wedding—you’re building a forever family.

And I’m right here, cheering for you every step of the way.