LDS Groom’s Overview: Your Role in a Temple Wedding

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You’ve found her. The girl you want to spend forever with.
Now you’re preparing for one of the most sacred and joyful days of your life—your temple sealing.
You might be wondering, “What do I need to do to get ready?” Or maybe “What’s my role in all this?”
Here’s the good news: You’re not expected to be perfect, but you are expected to show up—spiritually, emotionally, and mentally ready to honor your covenants and support your bride.
Let’s walk through what matters most right now.
First Things First: Temple Worthiness
Before you pick a tie or plan a honeymoon, your very first priority is to ensure that you’re ready—really ready—to make eternal covenants in the house of the Lord.
That means:
- Holding a current temple recommend
- Meeting with your bishop and stake president
- Living your life in harmony with the standards of the Church
If you’re unsure where you stand, don’t stress. Just reach out to your bishop or your dad-if he's a member. He’ll help you get where you need to be.
Responsibilities of an LDS Groom
Planning a wedding is often seen as the bride’s domain—but the groom has a vital part to play, too. Here are a few of the key ways you’ll support the process:
- Scheduling your temple sealing
- Being actively involved in decisions with your bride
- Meeting with church leaders and helping with guest logistics
- Writing thank-you notes, arranging travel, and confirming plans
- Most importantly: Leading with love and spiritual strength
You’re not just planning an event. You’re building the foundation of an eternal marriage.
Temple Day Tips for Grooms
- Show up early. Don’t rush this. Give yourself time to breathe, reflect, and feel the Spirit.
- Bring your recommend and wedding clothing (check with the temple on exact details).
- Take a quiet moment before you walk into the sealing room. You’ll never forget this day.
Final Thought
This journey you’re on? It’s sacred. It’s joyful. And it’s worth every ounce of effort you put in.
Your bride chose you for a reason. And your Heavenly Father has trusted you with the role of eternal companion.
Step forward with confidence, humility, and love. You’ve got this.
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