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Looking Your Best at Your Friend's LDS Wedding

You’ve found your dress, the wedding is on the calendar, and now it’s time to decide—what on earth should you do with your hair?

As a bridesmaid in a temple wedding, you want to choose a hairstyle that is beautiful, modest, and photograph-ready. But with so many options (and so many variables!), how do you pick?

Let’s walk through a few of the most common LDS bridesmaid hairstyle situations—with easy tips and suggestions for each.

Scenario #1: The Bride Wants Matching Hairstyles

It’s not uncommon for a bride to ask her bridesmaids to all wear the same hairstyle—for example, a classic bun, a curled half-up style, or a French twist.

What to Do:
Check in early! Find out what she’s envisioning so you can practice ahead of time. And don’t be afraid to ask if she’d like all styles to include accessories like flowers or combs.
Remember: She’s not trying to control your style—she’s trying to create a cohesive, beautiful look for her photos and her memory book.

Bonus Tip: If you're doing your own hair, give yourself time to practice a few trial runs and watch some tutorials before the big day!

Scenario #2: The Bride Says “Do Whatever You Want!”

Some LDS brides prefer a more relaxed, individual look and want their bridesmaids to choose their own hairstyles. If that's your bride, lucky you! You’ve got freedom to express your style—within the bounds of modesty, of course.

What to Do:
Aim for styles that are polished and reverent. You don’t need a professional updo, but you do want a hairstyle that will stay in place and look great from temple sealing through group photos and the last bite of cake.

Soft curls, braided crowns, sleek ponytails, or elegant buns are all lovely options that photograph well and pair beautifully with modest dresses.

Scenario #3: Hair Appointments for the Whole Bridal Party

If your bride has scheduled hair appointments for all the bridesmaids, hooray! That means less stress for you on the wedding day—but it still helps to come prepared.

What to Do:
Bring a few inspiration photos (Pinterest is your friend!), know what styles flatter your face shape, and be ready to adapt if the stylist suggests something slightly different to make it work best with your hair type.

This is also a wonderful chance to enjoy some quality time with the bride and your fellow bridesmaids as you all get pampered together.

A Word on Temple Appropriateness

As a bridesmaid in a temple wedding, modesty and reverence still matter—even in hairstyle choices. That doesn’t mean boring! Just thoughtful.

Avoid over-the-top styles, excessive sparkle, or anything too “red carpet.” Go for grace and elegance. Your hairstyle should complement your role as a supporting guest at a sacred event, not draw attention away from it.

Final Thoughts: Graceful & Gorgeous

Whatever your hair length, texture, or personal style, there’s a beautiful bridesmaid hairstyle that will fit your dress, honor the tone of the day, and keep you glowing through every photo and celebration.

And remember: no hairstyle is more beautiful than a happy, supportive heart.