Groom: What to Wear for an LDS Wedding

LDS groom adjusting boutonnière on a gray suit with floral tie — Image courtesy of Kylee Ann Photography

Image Courtesy of Kylee Ann Photography

On your wedding day, you’ll first wear sacred white temple clothing during your sealing. But once you step outside those temple doors for your “big reveal” and photographs, the question becomes: what should the groom wear?

Here’s your guide to LDS wedding attire for the groom—whether you’re choosing a suit or tuxedo, coordinating with your bride, or making sure you look sharp for every picture.


1. Suit or Tuxedo: Which One Fits?

The biggest decision for most grooms is suit vs. tuxedo. Both are great options:

  • Suit: Versatile, modern, and less formal. Easy to wear again after the wedding.

  • Tuxedo: Traditional and formal, often with satin lapels, cummerbund or vest, and a bow tie. Perfect if you’re going for timeless elegance.

Pro Tip: Choose based on the formality of your reception and your bride’s gown. The groom sets the tone for the groomsmen, so whatever you choose, your wedding party will follow.


2. Coordinate With Your Bride

Your look should complement—not compete with—your bride’s. Consider these details:

  • Tie or Bowtie: Match her bouquet or the bridesmaids’ dresses for a subtle pop of color.

  • Boutonnière: A small bloom that ties in with her bouquet.

  • Suit Color: Navy, gray, black, or tan—pick one that flatters your complexion and fits the season.

This coordination creates a polished look in photos and helps the whole bridal party feel unified.


3. Modesty and Cleanliness Matter

Even outside the temple, your appearance reflects the sacredness of the covenant you’ve made.

  • Shirts should be crisp and buttoned.

  • Suits or tuxedos should be tailored, not baggy.

  • Grooming—hair, beard, and nails—should be clean and neat.

You can still show personality with ties, socks, or cufflinks, but always keep it respectful and photo-ready.


4. Be Photo-Ready All Day Long

From the temple exit to the sparkler send-off, you’ll be in countless photos. Before each big moment:

  • Straighten your tie

  • Button your jacket

  • Fix your boutonnière

  • Flash your best smile

Your future children and grandchildren will treasure these pictures—make sure you look like the confident, covenant-keeping man you are.


Final Thought for Grooms

Your attire is more than just fabric—it’s a symbol of your role as husband and eternal companion. Choose something that makes you feel confident, comfortable, and worthy of the moment. Look sharp, stand tall, and smile often… because today is the first day of forever.

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