Father of the Bride Suit/Tuxedo Tips

Father of the bride, looking sharp while dancing with his daughter during an LDS wedding recepetion.

Image Courtesy of Kylee Ann Photography

Look Sharp, Feel Confident on Her Big Day

Your daughter’s wedding day is a once-in-a-lifetime moment—and you’ll be standing right beside her for many of the most cherished memories. From temple steps to reception hugs, your presence matters. And so does what you’re wearing.

Here’s your no-stress guide to looking like the confident, proud father you are—without stealing the spotlight.

Should You Rent or Buy?

For most dads, renting a tuxedo or suit is the best way to go—especially if you’re coordinating with the wedding party. But if you already own a great suit or want to invest in one you’ll wear again, go for it!

Just make sure it’s:

  • Dark, classic, and timeless (navy, charcoal, or black work best)
  • In great condition (no shiny lapels or outdated cuts)
  • Tailored to fit your body well (this makes the biggest difference)

Matching the Wedding Colors

No need to match the bridesmaids or wear a pink tie (unless you want to!). Instead:

  • Coordinate subtly with the groom and groomsmen
  • A tie or pocket square in a matching accent color is perfect
  • Keep it formal, classic, and comfortable

Tip: Ask your daughter or her fiancé what they’d prefer. It’s a thoughtful gesture and shows you care about the details.

Final Grooming Touches

The suit’s not the only thing that makes an impression. On the big day, be sure to:

  • Get a fresh haircut a week before the wedding
  • Trim facial hair or be clean-shaven (whichever is your look)
  • Wear polished shoes and a pressed shirt
  • Bring mints for temple photos and reception hugs

You’ll Be in the Pictures, Too

You’ll be captured walking her out of the temple, giving her a hug before the reception, or dancing with her at the celebration. Your outfit doesn’t have to be flashy—but it should help you feel comfortable and confident in every photo.

Final Thought

You don’t need to be a fashion expert to look your best—you just need a little prep and a lot of heart. After all, this day isn’t about looking perfect. It’s about showing up with love, support, and strength.

You’ve got this, Dad.

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