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Tuxedo Accessories for the LDS Father of the Bride

 
Look sharp. Feel proud. Celebrate her day.

You’ve got the tux. The shoes are shined. The boutonniere is pinned. But what about the finishing touches that help you look your best and feel confident as the proud father of the bride?

This is your daughter’s temple wedding—a sacred and joyful day that only happens once. You deserve to show up looking polished, put-together, and prepared. If you choose a tuxedo, here’s a quick guide to tuxedo accessories for LDS fathers, so you can walk her down the aisle (or stand ready for that post-sealing ring ceremony) in timeless, respectful style.

Tuxedo Accessories Checklist for LDS Dads

Bow Tie or Necktie:
Most formal tuxedos pair with a classic black bow tie. But some wedding parties choose coordinating neckties—especially if the groom and groomsmen are wearing them. Check with your daughter to see what the wedding color scheme or dress code calls for.

Cummerbund or Vest:
These are optional but add an extra touch of formality. Black is always safe, but occasionally, vests may be matched to the wedding colors for groomsmen or family.

Cufflinks & Studs:
If your tuxedo shirt calls for them, simple silver or black cufflinks work perfectly. Save the novelty cufflinks for less formal events—this is a sacred occasion.

Pocket Square:
A white or coordinating pocket square in a simple fold adds class and elegance. Ask your tuxedo rental shop for help if you’re unsure how to fold it.

Suspenders (if needed):
Most rental tuxedos come with them. Wear them under your jacket for comfort and support.

Dress Socks:
Black socks only. No athletic socks. No white socks. Trust us on this one.

Polished Dress Shoes:
Usually, the rental will provide shoes, but if you’re wearing your own, give them a shine the night before.

Boutonniere:
Your daughter or her florist may provide a small floral pin. Wear it on your left lapel.

A Word About Family Photos

You’ll be in plenty of wedding pictures—some posed, some candid. Looking confident and comfortable in your formal wear helps you shine as the proud dad without stealing the spotlight.

Pro Tip

Ask someone to snap a photo of you with your daughter before the festivities begin. Just the two of you. That quiet moment will become one of your favorite memories.

Final Thoughts

You’ve done the work. You’ve raised a remarkable daughter. Now, dress the part and enjoy this sacred and joyful day. She’ll remember how you looked at her—with pride, with tears, and with love.

You’re ready.