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Father of the Groom: Tips for Looking Sharp for an LDS Wedding

As the father of the groom, your role is both honorable and heartwarming. You’ve raised a son who is now stepping into one of the most sacred covenants of his life. As the wedding day approaches, it’s only natural to want to look your best — not just for the photos, but as a visual reminder of your love, respect, and support for your son and his soon-to-be eternal companion.

Here’s everything you need to know about dress etiquette, traditions, and options as the LDS Father of the Groom.

1. Should the Father of the Groom Wear a Suit or Tuxedo?

There’s no hard rule — but there are a few important things to consider.

Traditionally, the father of the groom wears formal attire that coordinates with the groom’s tuxedo or suit and complements the overall wedding style. At an LDS wedding, the groom may wear temple clothing for the sealing itself, but will likely wear a tuxedo or suit for the ring ceremony, reception, and photos.

Your job: Match the formality of the groom and the event. If your son is wearing a tux, you should, too. If he’s in a suit, a well-fitted suit (or even a dressy blazer and slacks, if the wedding is casual) will likely work beautifully.

2. Coordinate With the Bride’s Father

Weddings often include both sets of parents in photos and events, and many LDS couples want the parents to look cohesive and complementary.

It’s a thoughtful gesture to coordinate (not necessarily match) with the father of the bride. This doesn’t mean you have to wear the same tie or jacket — just be sure your outfit feels equally formal and works well for side-by-side photos. A quick text or call ahead of time can help avoid any unexpected contrast in style.

3. To Rent or To Buy?

If you already own a great-fitting suit or tux, fantastic. But if not, don’t worry — there are many affordable and stylish rental options today. Renting is especially convenient if you want to match the wedding colors or style and don’t foresee wearing the outfit again soon.

Just be sure to:

• Get measured early

• Try it on before the big day

• Coordinate your rental timeline with the wedding schedule

Many tuxedo rental shops offer package deals when the groom and groomsmen also rent through them — so ask if there’s a family discount!

4. Be Photo Ready

On the wedding day, your smile, posture, and polished look will speak volumes. Whether it’s helping guests, welcoming the bride’s family, or walking side-by-side with your son — you’ll be in the spotlight more than you might expect.

Plan ahead with:

• A fresh haircut (a few days before the wedding)

• Pressed clothing

• Polished shoes

• A confident, supportive smile

And don’t be afraid to shine a little. Your son is watching, and he’ll never forget the way his dad stood proudly by his side that day.

5. Remember What Really Matters

Tuxedo tips are helpful, but the most important thing you’ll “wear” is your attitude. Your love, humility, and joy will leave a lasting impression on your son, his new bride, and everyone in attendance.

Let your confidence come from your faith and your love — not just your wardrobe.

Final Thought for the Father of the Groom

This day marks a new beginning, not only for your son but for your family. Dressing well is one way to show your support, but your presence — steady, loving, and proud — will be the greatest gift of all.

You’ve done well, Dad.