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Best Man & Groomsmen: What to Wear for an LDS Wedding

If you've been asked to be the best man or a groomsman at an LDS wedding, congratulations! It’s more than just an honor — it’s a sacred opportunity to support your friend or sibling as he steps into an eternal covenant. As you prepare to stand by his side, one of the most important details to get right is your outfit.

Here’s everything you need to know about LDS wedding attire for the best man and groomsmen — including suit vs. tux, modesty, coordination, and confidence.

1. Suit or Tuxedo: What’s Appropriate?

Whether you wear a tuxedo or suit depends largely on the formality of the wedding — and especially what the groom is wearing.

• If the groom is wearing a tux, the best man and groomsmen should wear tuxedos, too.

• If the groom is wearing a suit, then coordinated suits are perfect.

Tuxedos are more formal and traditional, typically with satin lapels and bow ties. Suits are slightly more relaxed and versatile — and can still look incredibly sharp, especially when tailored well.

Pro Tip: Always ask the groom what he prefers before making plans. He may want to coordinate colors, boutonnières, tie styles, or rental packages.

2. Coordinating Without Copying

As the best man, your outfit may have one small detail that sets you apart — like a different tie, pocket square, or boutonnière — while still blending with the groomsmen.

As a groomsman, your job is to complement the groom and present a unified look with the rest of the group.

Remember:

• Matching is great, but coordinating is even better.

• Stick with the color scheme and level of formality.

• Make sure your shoes, belt, and socks are clean and appropriate.

If the groom’s party is renting, use the same shop so the looks stay consistent. Most tux or suit rental stores offer easy packages and group discounts.

3. Modesty and Cleanliness

As members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, modesty and cleanliness still matter — even in formalwear.

• Shirts should be well-pressed and fully buttoned

• Pants should fit properly and not sag

• Grooming should reflect respect for the temple and the event

This doesn’t mean you have to look plain! You can express your style with tie choices, cufflinks, watches, and shoes — all while staying respectful and temple-appropriate.

4. Be Photo-Ready All Day Long

You’ll likely be in a lot of photos — not just with the groom, but with family, friends, and the couple. Even candid moments at the ring ceremony or reception can end up in the wedding album forever.

Take a moment before walking into each event to:

• Straighten your tie

• Smooth your jacket

• Check your teeth (yes, really)

• Smile with purpose — you're part of something sacred

5. Support Isn’t Just Symbolic

Yes, your sharp outfit helps the group look unified and polished. But even more important is your presence, kindness, and example.

The way you act, serve, and speak will reflect not just on the groom — but on your shared faith, brotherhood, and priesthood values. Help with chairs, talk kindly to guests, keep the jokes clean, and stay attentive. It will mean more than you know.

Final Thought for Best Man and Groomsmen

This day isn’t just a party — it’s a covenant. You’ve been chosen to stand beside the groom because he trusts you, respects you, and wants you close as he begins his eternal marriage.

Look sharp. Act noble. Smile often. You’re not just dressing up — you’re showing up.