Best Men & Groomsmen – Final Touches

Best man and groomsmen in suits tuxes showing ties and boutonnières.

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Best Man & Groomsmen: Looking Sharp!
The Final Touches for LDS Weddings

Every Best Man and groomsman wants to look sharp and respectful for an LDS temple wedding. Your suit or tux is the foundation — but it’s the accessories that bring it together. Here’s your go-to list for those perfect finishing touches:

1. Shoes & Socks

  • Classic leather dress shoes in black or dark brown — polished to a mirror shine (if wearing a tux).

  • Socks should match your suit color, long enough so no skin shows while kneeling.

2. Tie or Bow Tie

  • Choose one that complements the overall color scheme and your suit.

  • Smooth and flat – no bumps or skewed knots.

3. Pocket Square

  • A crisp, folded pocket square adds that polished, elegant flair.

  • Match its color to your tie or the wedding palette — not necessarily to your shirt.

4. Belt

  • Stick with a leather belt matching your shoes. Keep buckles simple and sleek.

5. Cuffs & Cufflinks

  • Opt for a crisp white French-cuff shirt with subtle cufflinks, not flashy.

  • Look for meaningful designs — like a simple engraving or heirloom brass.

6. Watch

  • A clean, classic dress watch conveys sophistication — think leather strap or metal bracelet.

  • Avoid bulky sport or digital watches.

7. Boutonnière

  • Decide with the couple whether to match the groomsmen’s florals to ties or pocket squares.

  • Keep arrangement sizes consistent.

8. Lapels & Pins

  • A small, tasteful lapel pin—for the church logo, wedding monogram, or meaningful symbol—adds a refined touch.


Pro Tips for Pulling It All Together:

  • Lay it out the night before: Shoes, socks, belt, watch, accessories — check each item is clean, polished, and in good shape.

  • Check fit and comfort: Move, kneel, and sit in your ensemble to make sure nothing binds or pulls.

  • Match the group: Coordinate ties, boutonnières, or pocket squares so everyone looks consistently sharp without over-matching.

  • Polish on the day: Bring a lint roller, shoe polish cloth, and spare button. A quick check can save the look.

Attention to detail goes a long way—you’re not just standing next to the groom, you’re helping elevate the appearance and spirit of the ceremony.


Special Note for LDS Weddings

Your appearance should reflect reverence for the temple experience. Let your accessories complement the sacred setting—nothing flashy or distracting, just thoughtfully combined and respectful.

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